Support

Learn how to support your student's journey through membership.

Supporting Your Student

Suggestions for Assisting Your Student With the Transition

• Be happy and supportive with your student’s choice to join a fraternity or sorority and the organization that they choose.

• Remember that this is your student’s choice, and they should choose the chapter that feels right, regardless of legacies or family history.

• Encourage your student to attend programs sponsored by student organizations and campus departments.

• Know the names and phone numbers of the chapter president, new member educator, big brother/big sister and the chapter advisor.

• Ask for details about the financial aspects of membership. Each chapter governs its finances individually. If you are paying, you deserve to know. Many one-time fees are paid in the first semester, so expect the first semester to be the most expensive.

• Initiation is an important time for the new members. Be supportive and respectful of your student during this time. New member programs can range from one day to a full semester. However, most programs are six to eight weeks. Initiation dates are public to the new members, so please ask your student when initiation will occur.

• Talk with your student! Phone calls, e-mails, letters and care packages are always appreciated.

• Expect to see new T-shirts, photos and other Greek paraphernalia.

• Encourage your student to be a part of the College community and take advantage of our numerous resources.

Advantages to Membership

• A support group to help make the adjustment to college easier.

• Minimum standards for membership that promote accountability and responsibility.

• Resources to help students achieve their academic goals.

• Leadership skills acquired through hands-on experiences and participation.

• Active participation in meaningful service projects and opportunities to help others.

• Valuable interaction with alumni and advisors who are professionals that volunteer their time and talent to help guide chapter operations.

Consider Asking the Following Questions Before Your Student Joins:

• What is expected of fraternity/sorority members?

• How will membership impact your student's academics?

• What leadership opportunities are available to students as both new members and active members?

• Does the chapter perform hands-on community service? If so, how often?

• What are the expenses associated with membership? How does this vary as a new member?

• What type of member is the chapter looking for?

• What values does this organization promote?

• Is the organization officially recognized by the University?

• What is the time commitment?

How Can I Be Involved?

• Attend events hosted by the chapter this could be a philanthropy event, community service, parents and family events, homecoming weekend, etc. 

• The chapter may send out newsletters ask about joining the mailing list if possible

• Often times chapters will have raffles, bake sales, ticket sales, etc., to raise money for various philanthropic partners, local and national organizations, and even on-campus organizations. You may donate or help to reach out to other friends and family members to donate! 

• You might also be asked to help decorate, plan, or assist in different events